The Reader spoke quietly. “I know the trauma is in the past. I tell myself that all the time. But my body doesn’t listen. Loud noises. Sudden movements. Certain words. Certain silences. I’m always bracing. I’m always alert. I’m always ready for something bad to happen.”

The Reader’s voice dropped. “I keep having thoughts I don’t want. Violent thoughts. Inappropriate thoughts.

For too long, clinicians have been trained to treat healing as something that happens in the other, the patient, the client, or the person sitting across the room.

Reader: “But how does transformational reading help when I can barely get off the couch?”

Dr. Sidor: “Because transformational stories don’t require you to act first. They invite you to feel, recognize, and identify.”

Dr. Sidor: “Anxiety isn’t weakness. It’s a nervous system stuck in anticipation mode, and driven by threat prediction and uncertainty intolerance”

There is a strength that does not shout. A power that does not perform. A resilience that does not harden—but deepens.

Never Give Up is not about forcing optimism or pushing harder. It is about remembering why persistence matters, even when the path is unclear and the outcome uncertain.

But when it’s my turn… something freezes. I doubt myself. I second-guess everything. I feel like I’m not enough.” She looked down. “Where does confidence even come from?”

“I’m tired all the time. But the moment I lie down…my mind starts sprinting, thinking, replaying, and predicting. It’s like my brain refuses to turn off.” 

Gary Jenkins’s story is not polished or easy. It is real, human, and necessary.

We don’t just need policies that change. We need leaders that can change themselves.

The Reader spoke quietly, almost ashamed of the confession. “I keep trying to change my life…but how do I change when the story I tell about myself stays the same?”

Dr. Sidor: “Stories bypass the cortex and speak directly to the limbic system, your emotional brain, your memory circuits, your fear pathways, and your stress-response system.” 

We are living in an age of polarization, outrage culture, mistrust in institutions, reactive leadership, and communities feeling unseen and unheard.

Unshakeable Women explores what happens when women stop shrinking, stop apologizing, and stop over-functioning, and start leading from truth, purpose, and their unshakeable core.

The Reader stared at her hands.  “I read these amazing things… I feel different… I want to be different…and then I fall right back into the same old patterns.”  She swallowed hard.  “It makes me wonder if change is even possible for me.” 

Gary Jenkins’s journey is a mirror for all who have ever struggled, been doubted, or been underestimated.

Most people think emotional intelligence is about managing feelings. But emotions are not interruptions.

“I Feel Alone, Even Around People.”

The Reader’s voice trembled.  “I’m surrounded by people… family, coworkers, friends.  And yet, I still feel alone, like no one really gets me.” 

The Reader looked down, embarrassed.  “I read all these powerful things,” she said. “I feel inspired. I tell myself I’m going to change. And then… nothing. Zero follow-through. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.”